Why does she stay?
Women from BME background may stay with an abusive partner often because:
- If she has been totally controlled deprived of friends, with no support network; facing a language barrier; she may not be aware of the help available.
- She may feel she has no where to go
- She may feel she is unable to cope financially.
- She may be feeling low self-esteem and a severe lack of confidence.
- She may feel incapable of leaving the relationship because it will bring shame.
- She may believe that he will change.
- She may stay because she doesn't want to deprive her children of their dad.
- She may fear that her abuser will find her and kill her and her children.
- She doesn't want to be isolated from the family.
- She may be scared of a future.
- She may still care about the partner.
- Immigration status, fear of being deported
- He threatens suicide
- Love/control