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Why does she stay?

Women from BME background may stay with an abusive partner often because:

  • If she has been totally controlled deprived of friends, with no support network; facing a language barrier; she may not be aware of the help available.
  • She may feel she has no where to go
  • She may feel she is unable to cope financially.
  • She may be feeling low self-esteem and a severe lack of confidence.
  • She may feel incapable of leaving the relationship because it will bring shame.
  • She may believe that he will change.
  • She may stay because she doesn't want to deprive her children of their dad.
  • She may fear that her abuser will find her and kill her and her children.
  • She doesn't want to be isolated from the family.
  • She may be scared of a future.
  • She may still care about the partner.
  • Immigration status, fear of being deported
  • He threatens suicide
  • Love/control